Sunday, March 24, 2019

Sunday Best: The latest status symbol? Human contact

Life for anyone but the very rich is increasingly mediated by screens.
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Sunday, March 24, 2019

Around here, there has been a lot of talk about what we might learn from the special counsel Robert Mueller about President Trump's possible ties to Russia. The former F.B.I. director James Comey wrote about his hopes in an Op-Ed this week. We are also covering the aftermath of two major stories: the mass shooting in New Zealand and the college admissions scandal. We asked you to share your thoughts on how to improve the American college system last week. You can check out some of the responses below, as well as a selection of favorite reads from this week. — Kathleen O'Brien, filling in for Alexandra March this week
Human Contact Is Now a Luxury Good
Marta Monteiro
By NELLIE BOWLES
The rich have grown wary of screens. They want their children playing with blocks, and tech-free private schools are booming. Increased human interaction — living without a phone for a day, quitting social networks and not answering email — has become a status symbol.
America Deserves a Leader as Good as Jacinda Ardern
Edgar Su/Reuters
By THE EDITORIAL BOARD
The world should learn from the way New Zealand's prime minister has responded to the terrorist attack in her country.
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Owning a Car Will Soon Be as Quaint as Owning a Horse
Eron Hare
By KARA SWISHER
Private car ownership declined globally last year. It could be the most important shift since the Cambrian explosion of the smartphone.
Don't Call Me Adorable
Hannah K. Lee
By R.O. KWON
It's not just me. An Asian novelist friend tells me that in the course of three days, at three separate professional events, she has publicly been called cute or beautiful three times. Imagine someone commenting on a man's appearance in such a setting.
Turning 40 and Looking Death in the Eye
Jun Cen
By MICHAEL DAVID LUKAS
I used to think everything worked out for the best. But my wife's cancer diagnosis changed that.
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Your Thoughts on the College Admissions Process
A note from Alexandra: Thank you to the many of you who wrote in last weekend, sharing your college admissions experiences and proposing ways to improve the process. I've included a selection of your responses, which have been lightly edited for length and clarity, below. As always, feel free to send me your thoughts, suggestions and favorite reads from the section at Op-reads@nytimes.com.
Create a lottery system: "Everyone who qualifies (by SAT/ACT score, grades or other quantifiables determined by the institutions together) gets into the drawing for the 'elite' schools (which can afford scholarships for those accepted). Yes, it means that college athletics might be affected, but perhaps positively, as excellent players will be distributed across the spectrum. It could hurt more creative students (who might choose to attend professional schools instead). But a transfer system after the first or second year — at which point college grades and athletic ability would be verifiable — could balance some of the negatives." — Patricia Lothrop, 71, Bellmore, N.Y.
Embark on a battle: Akin to what some amusement parks provide for patrons who want to cut in line and don't mind paying extra to do it, perhaps the college acceptance experience could have two basic lines of access. The typical merit-based group and the 'fastpass' group. Set aside a clear number of admission tickets for each group. Let the merit-based students compete on a 'level' playing field in their own game and let those with some extra cash battle it out for their spots." — David Kim, 49, Temecula, Calif.
Boost the price: "I don't have any problem if colleges wanted to set up a legal program where the hyper-wealthy, who have children who wouldn't get in otherwise, could pay an inflated rate. It could be five times the standard rate, maybe 10 times. Parents would have to pay a nonrefundable full four years of tuition, room and board, etc. Each school could allocate a certain number of spots — perhaps 10? Once that is in place, stricter oversight should be set up and schools should be hit with huge penalties if they violate the program. Once accepted into the school, the student will fall under all standard rules of that college. If they fail to meet minimum standards, they can be kicked out, and as mentioned above, no refunds on the prepaid tuition." — Jim Piper, 58, Ashby, Mass.
Re-examine meritocracy: "I would want to be sure that gifts to universities, at least at some levels and for certain purposes, could allow for granting reasonable enrollment advantages to descendants of the donors. On the whole, such gifts may often benefit higher education beyond the value of the meritocracy principle: A $150 million gift may allow for the construction of student living facilities, thus increasing the number of young people who can be educated at the university to an extent far greater than the relative handful of the donor's descendants who may benefit from the gift; a gift of that amount to a university fund that serves the merit-qualified but underprivileged poor can have the same effect. We should be careful of the fallacy that all wealth is in some way tainted and never deserving of any privilege, or fail to give more thought to the use value of gifts." — Ronald L Maksym, 85, Northport, Wash.

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