Sunday, February 16, 2020

Sunday Best: How to make your marriage gayer

The secret to marital satisfaction goes beyond flowers on Valentine’s Day.

“Women do not speak with one voice. We don’t all want the same things.” One of the things that Kimberly Probolus wants? Feminist listening. One year ago, she wrote a letter to The Times noting that women were underrepresented on the letters page, prompting us to start the Women’s Project, which has worked to correct this imbalance. Since then, 43 percent of the letters we have published have been from women and 57 percent from men. There’s much more work to be done. So, to anyone who feels underrepresented, grab your pen — er, laptop — and write to us. Not sure where to start? Here’s a guide. We look forward to hearing from you. — Alexandra March

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How to Make Your Marriage Gayer

Bráulio Amado and Jordy van den Nieuwendijk

Step 1: Share domestic tasks. Step 2: Divvy up time with your kids differently. Step 3: Discuss your desires more frankly.

Are ‘Near-Death Experiences’ Real?

Owen Gent

They do actually happen, as in people really experience them. But does that mean that they truly give people a glimpse at what lies beyond life?

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Bring Back the Tomboys

Nancy McKeon as Jo Polniaczek in “The Facts of Life,” 1982.Herb Ball/NBCU Photo Bank, via Getty Images

Their baggy clothes and assertive attitudes gave girls in the 1970s and ’80s something to be other than feminine. They “expanded the possibilities of what girlhood could look like.” But where are all the tomboys now?

The Meaning of a Giant Roast Pig

Angie Wang

“I’ve recently watched so many people around me become vegetarians, or sometimes vegans,” Alicia Wittmeyer writes, but adds: “I’ve been awed by the seeming casualness with which they make these decisions. I admire them and at the same time know that this choice is one I will almost certainly never make.”

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How Fear Distorts Our Thinking About the Coronavirus

Manhattan’s Chinatown in January. There’s been a rush on face masks in the United States, even though the C.D.C. isn’t recommending them.Justin Lane/EPA, via Shutterstock

Consider this experiment: The United States is preparing for an outbreak that would kill 600 people. There’s a treatment that would save 200 people, or one that has a 33 percent chance of saving all 600 but a 67 percent chance of saving none. Which would you choose?

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