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April 2, 2021 Hello. Every day, we’ll send you stories we think you’ll love. Let us know what you’re interested in to improve your recommendations. Choose your interests From L.G.B.T.Q. Opinion | How Do I Define My Gender if No One Is Watching Me? Without a public eye, who are we? From Wines of The Times When You Need a Wine Under $10 Here are three examples of red wine from France, Italy and Chile. From Business & Technology ‘The Angriest Octopus’ Lashes at a Tourist on an Australian Beach In a widely shared video, a lunging octopus in Australia earned a mild response from the man being targeted by an arm: “Oh, golly.” From Social Justice M.L.B. Pulls All-Star Game From Georgia in Response to Voting Law The move served as a warning to Republicans in other states who are trying to restrict voting, and is likely to put new pressure on other organizations and corporations to consider pulling business out of Georgia. From Art & Design Two Brothers Posed for a Portrait. One Lived to See It in the Met. Alice Neel painted two neighborhood boys in her studio in the 1960s. Fifty years later, the mystery of what happened to the picture has been solved. IMPROVE YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS Science The wonders of humans and our world International News from around the world Books to Read Suggested reading from Times editors COLUMNS AND SERIES The latest updates for you From The Hunt Two Humans, Two Dogs and a Two-Bedroom in Brooklyn for Under $1.5 Million. Which Home Would You Choose? For their first New York purchase, a couple scoured their beloved Williamsburg neighborhood for a quiet place with good light and more space for their growing household. Here’s what they found. From At Home From Zac Posen, a Rich and Briny Pasta for Spring Having long found inspiration in the kitchen, the designer shares a recipe for uni spaghetti that he perfected after a trip to Sardinia. From At Home Why You Should Plant Oaks These large, long-lived trees support more life-forms than any other trees in North America. And they’re magnificent. TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT From Modern Love My Choice Isn’t Marriage or Loneliness I thought I had a classic fear of commitment, but it’s more complicated than that. From Sports For Korea’s Golfers Eyeing the Olympics, More Than Four Is a Crowd Each country can send only four women to Tokyo, and with six Korean golfers in the world’s top 15, just making the team can feel harder than winning gold. From Paul Krugman Opinion | Bidenomics Is as American as Apple Pie Big spending on infrastructure goes back to the Erie Canal. From Latinx Opinion | The Perpetual Crisis at the Border — and What We Can Do About It The U.S. immigration system doesn't reflect its own needs or those of its southern neighbors. From At Home Dogs Can Have a Little Charcuterie, as a Treat “Barkuterie” boards are a new way to spoil your beloved pets. THAT’S IT FOR TODAY Help us find the best stories for you. Choose your interests To stop receiving these emails, unsubscribe or manage your email preferences. Subscribe to the Times | Get the NYT app Change Your Email | Privacy Policy | Contact | Advertise | California Notices The New York Times Company 620 Eighth Avenue New York, NY 10018